Safety
Community guidelines
Kindered is for adults who want respectful dating. These rules are how we keep the app usable. Breaking them can mean a hidden profile, a closed account, or a report to authorities when the law requires it.
1
18+ only
You must be an adult. If you think someone is under 18, report them immediately. We treat those reports first.
2
Real people, real photos
Use recent photos of yourself. Stolen, celebrity, or heavily filtered-to-mislead photos are fake profiles. Request photo verification so others can trust the badge.
3
No scams or money requests
Never ask another member for money, crypto, UPI, or gift cards. Kindered staff will never ask you to pay another person. Off-app rushes to WhatsApp or Telegram in the first chats are a common scam — report them.
4
No harassment or hate
Insults, threats, outing someone, or targeting people for gender, caste, religion, or sexuality get you removed. Consent is ongoing; no means no in chat and in person.
5
No nudity or sexual images
Profiles and messages stay SFW. Unsolicited sexual images are banned and may be illegal where you live.
6
You stay in control
Report, block, or unmatch anytime. Hide from Discover, hide your online status, or delete your account from You. Blocking closes the chat; the other person is not sent a speech.
In the app, open any profile or chat and use Report / Block / Unmatch. More context: Safety centre · Privacy · Terms